Wednesday, December 9, 2009

Mommys Day OUT & Ronald McDonald House

Mommys Day Out:
A friend from my Bradley class, Lindsey, signed us up for a Free pregnant women massage held at a Massage School: http://www.texashealingarts.com/She picked me up and we hesitantly walked into our appointments as we wished each other luck.

It was awesome. I had two women working on me. At first I wasn't quite sure how the massage was going to work, given that I can't lay on my back comfortable and laying on my stomach is out of the question. When I got to the massage room i realized that pregnant people massages are done on your side...then you flip and do the other. These women massaged me from head to toe in 1hour, though i had lost sense of time and had no idea how long it was.

From the smells of intense to the comfy pillows, the entire experience was incredible. I can see why they recommend it for all people but especially pregnant women. The baby however didn't stop moving throughout the massage...jealous I think.

My friend's massage didn't go as well and mine did. Perhaps her masseuses were a little nervous, who knows. We then claimed Tuesday as Mommy Fun-Day. We went to Babies r Us, Michael's, Lunch, and Costco. Throughout the day we talked about the things we are excited and nervous about. We ended up making a list of things we want to do before our babies come...we'll see how much of that list we get accomplished. Our due dates are 1 day apart. Hers is the 6th of January. She is also having an boy (without a name yet, hehehe).

Mommy's day out was a lot of fun. It was nice to hang out with someone who walked as slow and I did, had to pause when telling a story due to a crazy kungfu kick, wanted to eat everything in site and couldn't, and had a lot of the same questions about all the unknowns that life has in store for us.

Ronald McDonald House:
After my Mommy Outing, I met up with Peter and some of his National Instrusments co-workers to go to the Ronald McDonald House. We all prepared meatloaf balls, mashed potatoes, green beans, and salad for the families. For dessert we cut up some apples and placed caramel on the side for dipping. There were a number of us so Peter and I techically only cut carrots, but the experience was a lot of fun. I wish we could have stayed to talk to the families or the children but the few people that were trickling in were too shy to approach the kitchen since we were still there so we gathered our things and left so they could eat their dinner warm.


Prepare and serve a home-cooked meal
Many individuals and corporate groups donate their time to make meals for families at our Ronald McDonald Houses. When families return from a long day at the hospital with their sick child, a home-cooked meal is often just what they need.

Sunday, December 6, 2009

Okay...so I lied,

NOW it's beginning to look a lot like Christmas!
Like I told you in the last post, Friday morning it snowed, which was awesome. Friday night we went to the Ronad McDonald Lights of Love 5k where Peter and Ashish ran along with 200 other crazies who were out there in 20something degree weather. Both of them had great races, despite the numbing temperatures.
There was even SNOW!!!!


Just kidding, a machine put out a shaving creme like substance on the floor around the finish so that the children and I would get a kick out of it. Fortunately for me there were heating lamps, hot chocolate, and snacks at the race...if not, I don't think I could have made it out there more than 2 minutes. The entertainment factor was great at the race, I wasn't bored for too long between the start of the race and Peter's 20:30 PR finish. We waited around for the AWARDs but unfortunately they both walked away with a pat on the back lots of Apples baggies ( which we awarded ourselves)
After the race we changed and went to a Movie/Comedy show at the Alamo Draft house. It was quite interesting. We paid to flip through channels along with 180 other people and 3 weirdos on stage. Some parts were really funny but others went right over my head.
Saturday morning we played house for a little, organizing the apartment a little before heading out to watch the Gator game at Ashish's house. We all had a dreadful, stressful afternoon that unfortunately resulted in tears for all of us.
We tried to do some retail therapy at Macy's after the game, but it didn't work for either one of us or the baby. I'm not sure if the baby understood exactly what had gone down that afternoon on the football field in Atlanta and what it meant to me, but he knew somthing was up because he was squirmming all afternoon and evening, almost as if throwing a tantrum in there.
Early Sunday morning I was woken up by my senses. I couldn't resist getting out of bed. Just like when I was little and I would hear the kitchen pans dancing around and dishes diving into the sink, I would rush to the kitchen to be blissfully surprised.
Before I was able to send commands to the muscles around my body to MAKE MOVES TOWARD THE KITCHEN, I tried to identify what food could possibly be infusing the apartment so deliciously. A couple things came to mind but knowing that we didn't have eggs forced me to cross a plethora of things off that list.
As I walked out to the kitchen, I was surprised to see that Peter had gotten eggs and was busy working on building a fluffy stack of pancakes...
Breakfast was SCRUMPTIOUS, pancakes with warmed syrup, sliced apples, and OJ. Great way to start our SUNDAY!
After making space in the living room for the tree, we headed into REAL TEXAS!! We drove southeast for about 45minutes until we got to a Farm in Eglin, Tx: Evergreen Farm.
It was such a cute farm with a Donkey, a nativity scene, hot apple cider, hot chocolate, marshmello roasting station, games for children to play, a nature trail, and of course...LOTS OF TREES. We debated and circled a while before making our FINAL DECISION on which was the lucky tree we would take home.



Finally we picked and Peter strapped it on the O SO HANDY bike rack.
On our drive back, we took a small country road for a couple miles. We came across some houses that look like a tornado had just hit, a train crossing, and some beautiful HUGE farms. In the midst of it all, we came across what seemed to us like a paintball facility. We turned in to see what it was. The sign read: GHOST TOWN. And it definitly looked like one, but the sign said OPEN and FOOD so we parked and walked in on the slippery planks of wood.
Apparently the owner, George Richards, has been working on this facility for the past 10 years. It is a little down with a Jail, Bank, chapel, movie theater, barn, cementary, and some other things. In the middle he has a little restaurant. We ordered some Burgers as we looked around the little town.
The more we walked around, the more we knew that Pete and my dad would have loved this place! It was straight out of a movie!!

Unfortunately, we had to leave beacause we had to make a christmas tree accessory stop at Walmart before heading home to change for Tim and Laurel (our friends) baby shower. The walmart stop was quick but funny and memorable. We bought our first christmas ornament: OUR FIRST CHIRSTMAS TOGTHER 2009.
Tim and Laurel's Babyshower was a lot of fun. They did a really cool thing. They had a sheet of paper where they asked all the guest to guess the SEX, DATEof arrival, and WEIGHT of the baby for $10 a guess. Who ever wins, gets half the pot, the other half goes to the baby.
Laurel's friends and sisters were really nice. We had a great time.
we took this same picture at my shower a couple weeks ago...now we can compare. I guessed that she was having a baby girl on February 2, 2009 weighing 8.2 lbs. We'll see how it goes.
When we came home that night, we DECORATED OUR NAKED TREE!


And VUALA....This is how it looks now!


What a weekend right...=)

Friday, December 4, 2009

It's beginning to look a lot like CHRISTMAS!!!!

You know that feeling, when you wake up on days that something is going to happen...you are in a daze for a couple seconds until you remember why you were so excited to be up in the first place?

That happened to me this morning...yesterday the weather forecasters here in Austin were predicting SNOW for today. Though may people told me not to get excited about it, cause it probably wouldn't happen, being me...I DID ANYWAY! When I woke up this morning, I kept my eyes shut for a little as I lay warm and comfy not wanting to move...UNTIL...I remembered that it might be snowing outside. I ran out to the living room porch with my heart racing, I quickly pulled the curtains open and stood outside. My excitement quickly died down when I was met with a freezing cold morning breeze, but no snow...ohh well.

Peter and I went to see Dr. Eng this morning. I weighed in at a whopping 160 lbs. The baby's heart rate was good (130 bpm) and my stomach measured 35cm (continuing to match my week of pregnancy). I told her about my upsetting visit with Dr. Winn 2 weeks ago. She didn't seem to care about my response to the experience with Dr. Winn. To my dismay, she proceeded to ask me if I was interested in an induction or a C-section. Peter answered cause I was sitting there in mute shock. He told her that we have been interested from the beginning (LIKE WE CLEARLY TOLD HER) in having a natural birth. She then did an exam to check my cervix dilation, then quickly used the sonogram machine to check the position of the baby--head down; which is good! Without further hold up, we walked out and scheduled our next appointment...for Friday (one week from today). Hopefully our visit with Dr. Sebestyen early next week goes well so that today could be the last visit with Dr. Eng and Winn!!!

The weather didn't allow me to be upset over the appointment too long...As we walked out to the car I SAW SNOW!!! Just a couple sporadic flurries but enough to have me starring intently at the car for the next 10 minutes just to see 2 more miniature flurries.

I dropped Peter off at work and ran some errands. When I got home, it was a completely different story! From my living room I could see SNOW FLURRIES coming down...A LOT OF THEM. I stood by the pool area of our complex freezing but super excited that I had snow falling on my nose and eyelashes. It was everywhere! I just kept calling people on my phone so I could share the excitement with them.
Sadly, it only lasted about a half hour...and then went away...

I must say that even this short tease of a snow storm was worth all the hype! I've always dreamed of a white Christmas...chances are I won't see it here, but I'll be satisfied with these flurries if they keep coming throughout December!

Hope you have a great, warm day...
as for Peter and I, we'll be really cold. Especially Peter who will be running a 5k tonight at 6pm!

Wednesday, December 2, 2009

PHOTO SHOOT

Saturday morning we had a Photo shoot with our very own camera crew:

Camera 1: Veronica
Camera 2: Luis
Camera 3: Beatriz
Camera 4: Peter
Bag and Props Holder: Anthony
Time manager: Pedro
Emotional support: Snoopy
Model 1: Valeria
Model 1.5: Baby
Model 2: Peter

Here is the link: http://picasaweb.google.com/valeria.rodez/0911PregnancyPics?feat=directlink

Please feel free to contact us for information about the photographers and models availability =)

OFFICIAL NAME CHANGE!

VALERIA RODRIGUEZ FLORES



After running around the Social Security Office and the DMV for a couple hours I was able to make the name change OFFICIAL!



No one tells you that when you change your name, that automatically means that you run into an endless list of this that require you to change your name as well. Anyone ever wonder why nothing ever happens to the guy's name. Peter has had to do ABSOLUTELY NOTHING! I'm not saying that I want Peter to change his name to Peter Rodriguez, but I am curious as to why they don't have to undergo any paperwork HASSELS.
I kept the Rodriguez as my Middle name, since I've never had one. I'm excited about my new name...just nervous that I might miss an important document that requires a name change...
Only time will tell if I've missed any important documents!

and then there were none....

Today, with tears in my eyes and a heavy heart, I drove away from the airport. It will be a couple weeks before I see my family again.
The last couple days have been non-stop trips to and from the airport. Now I'm starting to feel for those poor men and women who drive the shuttles for a living. The arrivals were a little less complicated than the departures. The departure schedule started Sunday night with Anthony, the first guest who left. Monday morning, Peter's parents left (they rented a car so I didn't take them to the airport.) Tuesday morning, my dad and snoopy headed home. And today, my mom took flight as well.

Knowing that they are coming back in a couple weeks, I didn't think I would get as emotional as I did. In part I guess it was because I didn't take advantage of ALL the time that we shared together, allowing myself to get worked up over petty things that don't matter instead of enjoying each moment. I know they will be back with Snoopy and hopefully Manuela in a couple weeks when the baby comes, but till then, our distance relationship will have to suffice.

I walked in a couple minutes ago to the apartment. For a second, I could hear the sink running and could almost hear my mom asking me if I wanted a little snack or something to drink.
I'm so happy that my parents came to visit and I loved having snoopy here! For a couple days, my parents and peter's got to feel like they lived in a college dorm.

Now it's just me and Peter...and the baby.
Now we have to work on finding a name for our boy, washing the baby clothes, packing our Hospital Bag, and finish mentally, emotionally, and physically preparing ourselves for the new addition that is coming sooner than we think!

These next 6 weeks are going to fly by, if we don't pay attention, we'll be caught off guard, and unprepared!

Mommy, Daddy, and Snoopy,
Gracias por venir a visitarnos. Me alegro que pudimos celebrar juntos el dia del Pavo y la boda civil. Gracias tambien por estar aqui y simplemente compartir estos dias con Peter, el bebe, y yo. Aunque solo han sido horas, ya me hacen falta! Espero que vuelvan pronto! Nos vamos a preparar encaso de que venga el bebe antes de enero.....
Un Beso,
Valeria Flores

The Civil Wedding

Our Civil Wedding was Friday November 27th, 2009 at Town Lake in Downtown Austin.
With our parents, Anthony, two friends, Judge Pablo Avila, and Snoopy present, we said our
I DO's
at 10am. In the backdrop was Lady Bird lake with the Austin Skyline. In front of us, we could see runners, bikers, and walkers taking their daily stroll. While some people were fighting for bargains on Black Friday all around the US and others were recovering from the thanksgiving comma, we were committing ourselves to each other "till death do us part."
Everything was SIMPLY PERFECT!



Peter Flores and Valeria Rodriguez are now legally HUSBAND AND WIFE!
Peter was the first to say his vows, and made me forget everything I had planned to say! Still now, a couple days later, I hear his words and still cry just like I did Friday morning. I think I will always cry when I hear those words played again. I had never thought about how my wedding would be but I don't think I could have asked for anything more than being in front of a man who loved me with all his heart and who promised to be there, grow with me, and share his life with me and I want with him. Very few times in life do we come across real reciprocated love.

The reason most girls cry when they watch chick-flicks and all those "happily ever after" movies is because of the fear we have deep down inside each of us that all that happiness and love might not exist in real life, it might just belong to the world of fairy tales and Disney. And though i'm living in my own fairy tale come to life, I still can't believe it's real. Everyday I wonder if i'll wake up and find that this was all a dream. With every kiss, with every joke, with every hug, with every story, with every walk we take together, he reminds me that this isn't a dream...This is our life, together.
This isn't a "happily every after",
this is a "Once upon a time..."
This is just the beginning...





After the wedding, Woode Wood, a musician that sings on the running trail sang to us, the song: YOU. It was beautiful. People were running by with their dogs and strollers, while My dad, my mom, Pete, Veronica, Anthony, Peter and I sat and listened...






After our song, we went on a 3 hour River Cruise where we popped Champagne bottles and snacked on cheese, crackers, peanuts, grapes, and strawberries as we sailed slowly down the lake. Peter and I were captain and Co-captain...lol
As wedding gift, Peter's parents got us a honeymoon suit in Downtown. We met up for dinner with out Wedding Party at Fogo De Chao, and then went to celebrate on 6th Street with some of our Austin Friends.

What a DAY!

Plane tickets:(Luis, Beatriz,Snoopy, Pedro, Veronica, and Anthony) $$$$$$
River Cruise Reception: $250
Randall's Bouquet: $12
Judge: $100
Musician: $5
Dress: $0
Hair/Make-up: $0
Photographer: $0
Officially starting our lives together...PRICELESS!!

Quotes to Live by:

A positive attitude may not solve all your problems, but it will annoy enough people to make it worth the effort.

Be kinder than necessary, everyone you meet is fighting some kind of battle.

When you help someone up a hill, you get that much closer to the top yourself.